Ladies, next time your husband gets hungry for you and you're too tired to prepare a banquet, ask him, “How about a quick snack?” He'll probably be thrilled that you're not rejecting him, and you'll be able to meet his need without resenting it.
Don't Make Him Beg
Bambi had four children in five years. She went from being a sex kitten to a fat cat who craved catnaps. She lost all interest in sex and was so tired that she had a “headache” for most of the next decade. When her husband tried to get frisky, she'd often arch her back and hiss, “You must be kidding!” He wasn't. She refused him so many times that he quit asking. Not surprisingly, they're now divorced and in the middle of a bitter custody battle over the kittens.
Men have fragile egos in this area and, in order to avoid rejection, they may stop pursuing their wives. Ladies, if your husband isn't asking anymore, immediately sprint into a lingerie shop. I mean now, this minute! March in there, and buy a little -and I mean little -something.